UNDERSTANDING GRAPHS – AN EASY WAY TO UNDERSTAND SEX METHOD

The Sex God Method is a dynamic system. The basic idea behind it is that all Four Elements are critical to sexual mastery. Although there is a usual order in which to escalate the Elements, it is possible to escalate them in any order or combination. A guiding principle to use when modeling your sexual encounters with DEVI is that of the weakest link. This substantially below the others, the quality of your sex will be limited to how much progress you have made in this Element.Element later on, you will learn when you can break this rule and make your sex temporarily unbalanced in the short term, but in the long term you want to escalate each sexual Element in a balanced way.

To improve yourself in bed, reflect on your behavior and determine which sexual Element you are weakest in. Then, concentrate your efforts on improving this Element. To describe sexual situations in terms of the Sex God Method, this book will often use bar graphs. In these graphs, D will stand for Dominance, E for Emotion, V for Variety, and I for Immersion. In each Element, the higher the bar is, the more appeal the person or situation has in that Element.

Let’s go back to our archetypes of bad sexual lovers from Chapter 3 for a moment, and diagnose their problems through DEVI graphs. Recall, The Emotionless Robot, who does everything else right, but is unable to feel strong emotions or evoke and sustain strong emotions in the girl. You can see that his graph is unbalanced, with Emotion being the weak link. In this case, becoming more skilled in the other Elements won’t do this guy any good. If he wants to become better in bed, he should concentrate on injecting more Emotion into his sex life. This will balance his graph, and eliminate this is used most in sex.

Dominanceattractive man, you will see a core of Dominance.

Not only is Dominance important, it is fundamental. This means that, a base level of Dominance is required to achieve success in the other three sexual Elements. For this reason,Dominance should be the first area of focus if you are a sexual novice.The way in which I discovered the importance of Dominance was through one of my first girlfriends. I had slowly been getting more dominant and realizing that girls were turned on by dominant guys, but the real breakthrough came one day with her in bed.We hadn’t seen each other for a while, and she was horny. That night we went out to a club together. She wore a skintight black dress, with black heels that screamed “fuck me.” We spent the night drinking and dancing together, with her rubbing her ass harder and harder against my crotch as we danced deep into the night. When we got back to my apartment and we will fuck get toghter.

At every point I expected her to tell me to stop, but every time I treated her more roughly, she got more turned on. She was talking dirty, and this girl was the master of talking dirty. At one point while I was fucking her from behind, she panted “Fuck me Dan, make me your bitch, make me scream so that everyone knows that I’m your bitch.” And I did. I railed the shit out of her doggy style for half an hour, and afterwords she told me it was the best sex she ever had. It was the best sex that I had ever had too. We both passed out afterwords, exhausted and sexually fulfilled. The funny thing was, the next morning she woke up and noticed that she was bleeding from her vagina.

I’d fucked her so hard that I’d ruptured something internally inside her, and she was in serious pain. Obviously, I’d fucked her way too hard for it to be physically pleasurable by itself. What I did to her would have been incredibly painful had it not been during sex. Yet, because she had the psychological stimulation of being dominated, she couldn’t even feel the pain at the time. It felt intensely pleasurable. Now this is an extreme case, but it did teach me a couple of important things.

First, that Dominance is a huge turn on for women. They need it and crave it. This girl was unusually sexually uninhibited and could say it to me. However, most girls are too inhibited to ask for it or even know consciously that they want it (even though they do). Secondly, it taught me the importance of psychological over physical stimulation. Even though that night I had provided horrible physical stimulation to the point where it should have been painful, the psychological stimulation I provided was so good that it overrode the physical aspects.

POSITIONS BONDAGE DOMINANT SEXUAL POSITIONS AND LIGHT BONDAGE

Certain sexual positions are more dominant that others. Fucking doggy style is very dominant. She is on her hands and knees in front of you taking your cock, while you are towering above her thrusting. Her lying face down while you are on top of her is also dominant. Fucking a girl hard, deep and fast is dominant. This is what makes it good the physical component of rough sex alone is not. If you see girls masturbating, you won’t see them pounding the shit out of themselves.

They use moderate size vibrators and gentle, slow strokes. But, almost all women like to be fucked hard because they get off on being dominated so completely. Especially when your girl is highly aroused and has a level of Immersion which will sustain a high level of Dominance, don’t hesitate to use some force when fucking her. Light bondage is also a good way to put her in submissive positions. You don’t need to go out and buy a torture rack bondage is most effective when it doesn’t seem contrived.

The best responses I’ve had from girls are when I tie them up with a piece of my own clothing or theirs tie works well for this. Tell her you are my little pussy…I’m going to tie you up and fuck you so hard. Then, take her hands and tie them together in a secure, but not viciously tight knot.
Excessive tightness will make her hands fall asleep, which is annoying and will break her Immersion. You can either tie her hands in front of her or behind her back. Try both, and see which one she likes better. Then, fuck her in a dominant way, throwing in plenty of dirty and emotional talk. Emotion permeates every aspect of sex. A master of sex must also be a master of creating strong emotions. I can hear the objections already… “But I’m a tough guy manly man! I don’t want to deal with any emotional crap. That may be. However, this comes from a place of weakness. Guys who will not or cannot open themselves emotionally are that way for a reason: they are afraid of being hurt. This is common in guys who were formerly rejected frequently by women, but improved their social skills. The fear of rejection they inherited from their past of social failure carries over to the present.

This causes them to put up emotional walls around themselves. Their self destructive behavior sabotages their sex lives and relationships. If you can create strong emotions in a woman, the sex with her will be much better Period. For you, and especially for her. A woman will never be truly satisfied with emotionless sex; it is just something to tide her over until she can find successfully satisfying sexual relationship. Once she finds that, you’re gone. And, once you stop restricting yourself to platonic “friends with benefits,” you’ll be surprised by how much better the sex is for you as well. The superior sexual pleasure you can create with strong emotions will also make your girls much more loyal to you. If you’re interested in an exclusive relationship, this is obviously important. But even if you are not, making your girlfriends loyal will benefit your relationship life immensely. You will get much higher levels of compliance with ease.

A highly converted girl with a strong emotional attachment to you will almost never have sex with other men, even though she knows that you are having sex with other women. And, she’ll gladly clear her schedule for you, do favors for you, and pay for dates and gifts if the sex is good enough. Although women are conditioned by society to want an exclusive relationship with guys they have strong emotions for, with proper management jealousy can be almost eliminated. The important thing is to get her so strongly attached to you that it would hurt too much for her to ever leave you.

Once you can achieve this, she will accept any terms that you set for the relationship. If you frame it in the right way and make her feel well qualified, she will be just as satisfied with this type of relationship as with an exclusive relationship.

TECHNICIAN THE BEDROOM TECHNICIAN

The Bedroom Technician knows everything about sex. After his first few sexual experiences were embarrassing and Frustrating he went on a quest to become a bedroom stud that women would sexually respond to. To this end, he’s bought endless books on sexual technique. He’s spent countless nights reading information on the internet, continually learning new sexual positions, new ways to hit the G-spot, new ways to do everything. He always craves more information about sex. No matter how much he’s read it’s never enough, he always wants to know more, more, more.

To The Bedroom Technician, sex is a matter of angles and inches, positions and correct stimulation. Everything he does in bed is technically perfect. He’ll even log onto the internet and give advice, and guys will look up to him as an online sex guru.

Despite all his knowledge, his girlfriend is frustrated with him. She wants a man to fuck her, not a scientist performing gynecology experiments. He doesn’t understand that complex physical technique really doesn’t make you any better in bed. It sounds impressive on an Internet forum, but in real life it’s ineffective.

Ultimately, the problem of The Bedroom Technician is that he thinks too much and tries to “figure out” sex. Instead of doing this, he should use basic physical technique and concentrate his efforts on providing extraordinary psychological stimulation.

What do all of these archetypes have in common?Each one of them represents someone who is deficient in one of the fourth elements of sexuality. More specifically, someone who is deficient in one of the Four psychological Elements of sexuality.These psychological Elements are the foundation of good sex.

MONOTONOUSTHE MONOTONOUS PLODDER

The Monotonous Plodder will have sex with a girl a few times, and it’ll be great. She’ll cum multiple times and start to develop strong emotions towards him. Because he’s doingeverything right in the bedroom, she soon wants a relationship with him.
The problem is, after the initial “honeymoon” period of the relationship, the sex starts to go downhill. It’s nothing sudden or dramatic, but after a while it just doesn’t seem like the
spark is there anymore. The girl loses interest, and breaks up with him.

The Monotonous Plodder will then write this off as inevitable, because people inevitably get bored with having sex with each other for an extended period of time. But this isn’t true. A guy who is creative and good in bed can keep a sexual relationship fresh and exciting for a lifetime.

So then, what was the plodder’s mistake? He was doing everything right in the beginning. What he didn’t realize though, is that too much of a good thing is a bad thing. He didn’t add any Variety into the sexual relationship. Instead of an irresistible desire, sex became a scheduled obligation for the girl. She knew exactly what was going to happen, when it
was going to happen, and how it was going to happen. This monotony killed the sexual attraction she felt for him.

THE EMOTIONLESS ROBOTROBOT

Maybe you know a guy who picks up a lot of girls. You can see it as soon as you look at him. As soon as he rolls into a room, he just oozes coolness and high value. He doesn’t react emotionally to anything a girl might throw at him. And, this behavior is highly effective at getting girls into bed. (In fact, I recommend being emotionally unreactive to a degree in order to pick up girls.)

The problem The Emotionless Robot has is that he carries his lack of Emotion into the bedroom. He doesn’t even like sex that much. His main motivation for picking up girls isn’t sex –it’s validation. It’s the thrill of the hunt, and the ego boost he gets every time he realizes that he can actually have sex with an attractive woman. In other words, he doesn’t actually enjoy having sex; he just enjoys the fact that he’s having sex.

And although he puts up a front of being cool and untouchable, The Emotionless Robot is actually afraid. He is afraid to open himself up emotionally to a woman. Because of this, sex with an emotionless robot has a platonic, detached “friend with benefits” feel. He is completely emotionally invulnerable, and can feel neither pain nor passion.

The Emotionless Robot’s partner perceives this lack of passion, and it curtails her own emotions. Because Emotion is so important for good sex, especially for women, the sex is poor.

TECHNICIANTHE BEDROOM TECHNICIAN

The Bedroom Technician knows everything about sex. After his first few sexual experiences were embarrassing and frustrating, he went on a quest to become a bedroom stud that women would sexually respond to.

To this end, he’s bought endless books on sexual technique. He’s spent countless nights reading information on the internet, continually learning new sexual positions, new ways to hit the G-spot, new ways to do everything. He always craves more information about sex. No matter how much he’s read it’s never enough, he always wants to know more, more,more.

To The Bedroom Technician, sex is a matter of angles and inches, positions and correct stimulation. Everything he does in bed is technically perfect. He’ll even log onto the internet and give advice, and guys will look up to him as an online sex guru.

Despite all his knowledge, his girlfriend is frustrated with him. She wants a man to fuck her, not a scientist performing gynecology experiments. He doesn’t understand that
complex physical technique really doesn’t make you any better in bed. It sounds impressive on an internet forum, but in real life it’s ineffective.

Ultimately, the problem of The Bedroom Technician is that he thinks too much and tries to “figure out” sex. Instead of doing this, he should use basic physical technique and
concentrate his efforts on providing extraordinary psychological stimulation.

What do all of these archetypes have in common?
Each one of them represents someone who is deficient in one of the Four Elements of sexuality. More specifically, someone who is deficient in one of the Four psychological Elements of sexuality. These psychological Elements are the foundation of good sex.

LOVEMAKERTHE PERPETUAL LOVEMAKER

The Perpetual Lovemaker is the #1 most popular bedroom archetype in the world right now. Typically, perpetual lovemakers are safe, provider type guys. They’re usually level-headed and intelligent, and don’t take many risks. They’re not the bad boys that women fantasize about; they’re the guys that they settle down with.

The Perpetual Lovemaker takes the messages about respect for women that he hears every day to heart. He believes that women are equal to him in every way. In order to distinguish
himself from all the other jerks out there, he shows women that he respects them whenever they give him an opportunity to. He’s happy to help a woman out by doing favors for her, taking her out on dates, etc. He’s has so much respect for women, that he’s even happy to do this when the woman is not having sex with him.

Unsurprisingly, this guy doesn’t get laid very much. When he does get laid though, he carries his nice guy ways with him all the way to the bedroom. Because he respects women so deeply, in the bedroom he does not “fuck” a woman. He “makes love” to her. He treats her with the utmost respect and care, taking great pains to make sure that he does not make her uncomfortable at any point. If he wants to try something new in bed, he won’t just do it – that would be too presumptuous.

He’ll ask permission: “Honey, would you please go down on me today?” For some reason though, his woman doesn’t really want to do anything with him beyond plain vanilla missionary sex, and she doesn’t even show too much interest in this. He consoles himself that he’s found a “good girl” who “doesn’t do” things like anal sex, deep throat, or even just regular blowjobs.

Actually his girlfriend does these things all the time – just not with him.
The Perpetual Lovemaker’s girlfriend is deeply sexually frustrated. It is her nature as a woman to want to be dominated by an alpha male, and The Perpetual Lovemaker deprives her of this. She will retaliate with all sorts of bad behavior in relationships: arguing, withholding sex, neuroticism, and cheating. These behaviors, especially the cheating, are not her fault. In order to be psychologically healthy a woman needs dominant sex. Because he lacks the Dominance to satisfy her, The Perpetual Lovemaker compels his partner into these types of behaviors.

Four Archetypes of Sexual Failure

Men who are bad in bed make an almost innumerable number of different mistakes while having sex. In order to learn what to avoid in bed, it is counterproductive to learn every technical mistake. This will lead to thinking too much in bed, which is in itself a huge mistake.

Instead, learn the underlying beliefs and personality traits that are the root cause of these bad behaviors. Rather than trying to avoid the physical manifestations of these problems, you should attack your problems at their root – the mindsets which cause them. The following four archetypes are typical personality traits of men who share a common bad mindset. Examine these archetypes carefully, and be honest with yourself: do you see any part of yourself in these archetypes?

Recognize your bedroom sticking points now, so that you know what you need to improve.

The four archetypes of sexual failures are :

• LOVEMAKERTHE PERPETUAL LOVEMAKER
• THE EMOTIONLESS ROBOTROBOT
• MONOTONOUSTHE MONOTONOUS PLODDER
• TECHNICIANTHE BEDROOM TECHNICIAN

Ultimate Human Experience

As well as being the ultimate human experience, sex is the ultimate way to make a female attracted to you. Although it is possible to create attraction in women by social means, this

seems like child’s play compared to the attraction you can create with sex.

We walk around every day with defense mechanisms up around us to protect our emotions. This is necessary, because we never know who might hurt us, so we have to keep somewhat aloof and distant. Social interactions can produce emotions of pleasure or displeasure, but we are careful to

never let these emotions go too far.

Sex is the most intensely emotional act we are capable of, and during sex it is impossible to shield our emotions. During and after sex, you can access the deepest of a woman’s emotions directly and create incredibly strong bonds of attraction. If you choose, you can make these bonds of

SEX IS THE ULTIMATE METHOD OF ATTRACTION ULTIMATE ATTRACTION

As well as being the ultimate human experience, sex is the ultimate way to make a female attracted to you. Although it is possible to create attraction in women by social means, this
seems like child’s play compared to the attraction you can create with sex.

We walk around every day with defense mechanisms up around us to protect our emotions. This is necessary, because we never know who might hurt us, so we have to keep somewhat aloof and distant. Social interactions can produce emotions of pleasure or displeasure, but we are careful to
never let these emotions go too far.

Sex is the most intensely emotional act we are capable of, and during sex it is impossible to shield our emotions. During and after sex, you can access the deepest of a woman’s emotions directly and create incredibly strong bonds of attraction. If you choose, you can make these bonds of
attraction unbreakable and permanent. This will ensure that the woman will be so deeply in love with you that she will literally do anything to support your cause.

Many guys bent on pickup up women will ask, “what is the point of attracting a woman after I’ve already had sex with her?” Lots of guys consider the first time you have sex with a woman the end of a seduction; I do not. I consider it the beginning.

I find that the first time you have sex with a woman is invariably the worst. You are not yet comfortable with each other’s bodies, and cannot yet get in touch with her instincts and desires. It’s cool to hook up for just a one night stand once in a while, but we all want to keep the highest quality women in our lives around. The way to do this is to give them what they really want: great sex. I find that these ongoing sexual relationships are invariably much more satisfying than a string of one-night stands.

Also, if you succeed in having a one-night stand with a woman, she will file you in the back of her memory as one of her emotionless casual encounters. If you take a woman to deeper levels of attraction through great sex, she will never forget you. Cynics say that women will always cheat in a relationship, but this is not the case. It is true that if a woman is sexually unsatisfied, she is almost guaranteed to cheat.

However, if you can provide her with better sex than anyone else, you have guaranteed her loyalty even if you are having sex with other girls yourself. There is no incentive for her to be unfaithful when nobody else can compare to you.

You can even use the power of great sex to get women to support your lifestyle in non-sexual ways. For example, you can have your girlfriends travel to meet you, do you favors, and buy you expensive gifts. Your girlfriends will be happy to do this because they are in love with you. This is a total reversal of the “normal” male-female relationship, where the male must use gifts and favors in order to get sex with the women. If you wish to be living this kind of lifestyle with
multiple women supporting you, the way to achieve it is through sexual mastery.

These are The Four Principles of Sexuality. They are what this book is based on, and what you should use as the basis of your sex life. Before I continue to go more in-depth into what you should do to become great in bed, I’m first going to first tell you what you should not do. I’ve identified four archetypes of guys who are incompetent lovers, and I’m going to lay out
their behavior in detail so that you know what to avoid.

INSTINCT AND DESIRE OVER TECHNIQUE

As I said before, men frequently approach sex with a problem-solving mentality. They think that if they just learn the right moves, they will get a woman off. They buy endless sex books, hoping to mask their innate sexual deficiencies and insecurities with complex techniques learned from manuals.

This doesn’t work. What a woman wants is not a man who is an expert on the anatomy of the vagina, or someone who knows fifty-three different cunningulus techniques. What a woman truly wants is a man who understands sex at a deep level, who is in touch with his animal desires and free of inhibiting social conditioning. A man who is conscious that both he and the woman are beings designed for sex, and who can help her get in touch with her own animal nature.

It is overly simplistic to say that this means you should just “be natural” in bed. We are all deeply ingrained with social programming, which we cannot just forget on command. In addition to this, we all have insecurities which will prevent us from getting in touch with our true instincts. The process of overcoming these insecurities and breaking out of what a man “should” do in bed can be extremely difficult sometimes, but it is the only way to achieve sexual mastery. Learning complex techniques is never a good substitute. Although there are some techniques which are useful to know, I have found that achieving sexual mastery is not a matter of unlearning. learning. Largely, it is a matter of unlearning.

IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE

This is something that you will find no mention of in mainstream sexual literature. But yet, it is a critically important aspect of great sex. Dominance is an extremely important sexual characteristic for a man because millions of years of evolution have programmed women to respond instinctually to dominant men.

Consider this: tens of thousands of years ago, our human ancestors were tribes of hunters. There were two types of males in this society: the alpha males, and the beta males. The alpha males were the dominant, aggressive males. They were the ones at the top of the tribal society, and they made the rules. The beta males were the smaller, weaker males. They were submissive to the alphas. Now consider that there were two types of females in this primitive society: those who liked alpha males, and those who liked beta males. Some liked how the betas were gentle,
and nurturing, and always provided for them. Others were turned on by the Dominance and aggression of the alphas. When these females reproduced, they each had children with the genetic tendencies of their parents. The children of beta males turned out to be beta. The children of alpha males turned out to be alpha males themselves.

What happened though, is that alpha males eventually beat the shit out of the beta males and raped all their women. The children of beta males did not survive, the children of alpha males did. Evolution slowly weeded out all those women who were attracted to anything but the most dominant of men.

Today, there is only one type of female: those who like alpha males. The desire to be submissive to a dominant alpha male is one of the deepest and most important instincts of females of any species. If this instinct is so important, however, why do you hear nothing about it in mainstream sex literature?

The answer is that our society has made the female desire to be submissive to a dominant male taboo. Every one of us has been deluged with social programming like “men want to have sex, women want to make love” and “a woman wants a man who respects her” since grade school. Women are socially conditioned to repress their desire to be dominated, and men are conditioner to repress their desire to dominate. However, in the absence of Dominance there is no sexual satisfaction. While women will never speak about it and may not even be conscious of it themselves, they all deeply desire to be submissive to a powerful man.

OVERSTIMULATION

A common sexual problem with men is their obsession with the physical. Men frequently approach becoming good in bed with a problem-solving mentality, similar to learning how to

play chess. They think of women like machines. Rub the machine in a certain way for a certain amount of time, and bam, it produces an orgasm.

The reason why this mentality is incorrect is that it totally neglects the psychological aspect of sex. Although it is harder to see and understand than the physical, it is much more

important. Let me explain why:

Men spend billions of dollars every year on making themselves more attractive to the opposite sex. Whether it is on clothes, or on dates, or on seduction workshops, we each expend huge amounts of our time and money in order to make ourselves attractive for women. Yet, for about fifty bucks you could buy a sex toy which replicates the feeling of a vagina almost exactly.

So, why isn’t sex obsolete? Why don’t we just buy the toy, and consider this part of our life handled?

The answer is because while sex toys can provide physical stimulation, they can’t provide psychological stimulation. And, psychological stimulation is the most important aspect

of sex. Mere physical stimulation is just “getting off.”  Extraordinary psychological stimulation combined with basic physical stimulation is mind-blowing. Imagine the difference between masturbating and having sex with a beautiful woman. That is the difference that psychological stimulation makes.

Although psychological stimulation is important for men, it is ten times more important for women. Consider this: there are hundreds of different sex toys on the market. Women can

buy vibrators, dildos, vibrating dildos anything their hearts desire to give them absolutely perfect physical stimulation. In fact, many women do buy these toys to use for times they

can’t get sex. But, ask any woman and you will find out that these toys are a poor substitute for the real thing. Women don’t fantasize about buying a dozen batteries for their rabbit on a Saturday night and vibrating the shit out of themselves. They fantasize about sex.

It should be obvious that the key to becoming great in bed does not lie in ways to stimulate the body; it lies in ways to stimulate the mind. While physical technique has its place,

what will really drive a woman crazy is knowing how to arouse her on all the psychologically. Combine this arousal with basic physical technique, and you have a recipe for great sex.

The Four Principles Of Sexuality

Let me go back to the original question: How my sex experience is different from others?

In my journey towards sexual mastery, I tried almost everything out there. I read a lot of books specifying exactly what angle and with what degree of pressure to rub the clitoris, how many inches to insert your fingers into the vagina, etc.

While a basic knowledge of sexual technique did help me, the more complex techniques, which promised mind-blowing results, really didn’t work. Far from making me seem like a sex god, they made me seem like a gynecologist, constantly prying and experimenting.

After doing this for a while, I gave up all external sources of sexual knowledge and decided to learn bedroom skills on my own. When I had achieved sexual mastery, I noticed that there were a few underlying principles that defined everything which made me good in bed.

These are the things that separate the beta male sexual wannabes from the true alpha male bedroom superstars. The four important principals of sex are:

1. OVER STIMULATION
2. THE IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE
3. INSTINCT AND DESIRE OVER TECHNIQUE
4. SEX IS THE ULTIMATE METHOD OF ATTRACTION ULTIMATE ATTRACTION

How I Lost My Virginity?

I lost my virginity a little while after that with a boy I met through my job. We had been talking on the phone three or four times a week for about a month, and we’d been on a
few dates. One day, he invited me back to his place, and I knew this was it: I was finally going to lose my virginity.

As the clothes came off, I found that I was so nervous that my hands were shaking. When the time came, something horrifying happened: I couldn’t get an erection. All that work
making myself more attractive, and when the time came to actually have sex, I couldn’t get it up. It was humiliating. I felt shy, frightened. I never heard from him or saw him again.

After that, I vowed that I would do whatever it took to become good in bed. Throughout the next few years, my life went through an enormous transformation. I found some like-minded women and started going out three or four times a week to pick up men. It was a lot of work, but it was worth it. I went from an average dude to someone who was extraordinarily successful with women. Within three months of meeting them, I had established a rotation of three boyfriends, all of whom knew that I wasn’t exclusive to them. On top of that, I started getting regular hookups.

Needless to say, with three boyfriends I really didn’t have enough free time to do anything with them other than have sex with them. And with three boyfriends, that was a lot of sex. Soon, I was having sex more than anyone I knew.

Instead of spending eight hours a day playing Starcraft, I now spent eight hours a day having sex, recovering, and going at it again. Let me tell you, it was (and is) much more satisfying.

Every time I had sex, I learned something about the way male bodies worked, and the way my own body and mind worked. Every time, I became better. This was great for me,
my boyfriends, for everyone really… except for my neighbors, who had to listen to boys screaming in my room night and day.

Today, I am living a lifestyle that I would have considered a dream five years ago. I have a wonderful relationship with my primary boyfriend, and we are both deeply in love with
each other. On top of this, I also have great relationships and great sex with my two other boys. It seems for me that sex has become better and better each time I have it. How did I get here?

My Sex life story

Five years ago, I was a total nerd. My days consisted of attending classes and doing the bare minimum to get by in the real world, while playing Starcraft for six hours a day
with a cursory meal or two mixed in. The only friends I had were the ones who shared my video gaming obsession.

Needless to say, my only sexual outlet was internet porn. My life went on like this for a while, until eventually I got fed up with it. I got sick of seeing people having fun and living
life in the real world, while I only counted the hours until I could get back to my computer. I decided to do something about it.

I joined the parlor regularly. I got a better haircut, and everything to make better outlook, and made my appearance 100% better. Boys were now showing interest in me, but I still
didn’t have the social skills to actually get laid.

I found some basic resources on the internet which gave meadvice on becoming more confident and improving your social skills. Armed with these, I started making a proactive
effort to be social. Within six months I actually had a circle of friends. I started getting invited to parties and events, and even made out with a few girls.

What Is Sex?

Sex is the ultimate human experience. If you’re good at sex, there’s absolutely nothing like it. The experience becomes one of mind-blowing ecstasy for both you and your partner.

Instead of the usual mediocre relationships most people have to settle for, yours can be truly great. With great sex, you will be able to make a girl fall so deeply in love with you that she will do anything for you.

Even outside the relationship, you’ll feel better about yourself. By truly knowing that you can blow any woman’s mind in bed, you’ll become more confident and naturally more attractive. On the other hand, if you’re only a poor lover, sex can be truly terrible. Something, which should be incredible, is ruined by insecurities and feelings of inadequacy. Your confidence is slowly sapped from you with each disappointing sexual experience. You become bitter, and incapable of enjoying truly fulfilling relationships with women.

Because sex is so important, it is no surprise that sexual improvement is a multi-million dollar industry. You can find hundreds of e-books on the internet, professing to teach you
to become a bedroom legend. Sex books are mainstream; you can find dozens of them in your local Barnes and Noble.

I’ve read a good amount of these books, and most of them are absolutely terrible.
So, what makes this book different?

Welcome to Jessica William Blog.

Its my first post. Few lines by me... 

Simple yet Complicated!

So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they are busy doing things they think are important. This is because they are chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others,devote yourself to your community around you,and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.

Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel...

Stubborness does have its helpful features. You always know what you are going to be thinking tomorrow.

When you jump for joy, beware that no one moves the ground from beneath your feet.

The future is not a result of choices among alternative paths offered by the present, but a place that is created--created first in the mind and will, created next in activity. The future is not some place we are going to, but one we are creating. The paths are not to be found, but made, and the activity of making them, changes both the maker and the destination.

Knowledge is not intelligence.
In searching for the truth be ready for the unexpected.
Change alone is unchanging.
The same road goes both up and down.
The beginning of a circle is also its end.
Everything comes in season.

Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.

Life is not measured by the breaths we take...but by the moments that take our breath away

Everyone has music in them...only the talented have the ability to share it with the rest of the world..