This is something that you will find no mention of in mainstream sexual literature. But yet, it is a critically important aspect of great sex. Dominance is an extremely important sexual characteristic for a man because millions of years of evolution have programmed women to respond instinctually to dominant men.
Consider this: tens of thousands of years ago, our human ancestors were tribes of hunters. There were two types of males in this society: the alpha males, and the beta males. The alpha males were the dominant, aggressive males. They were the ones at the top of the tribal society, and they made the rules. The beta males were the smaller, weaker males. They were submissive to the alphas. Now consider that there were two types of females in this primitive society: those who liked alpha males, and those who liked beta males. Some liked how the betas were gentle,
and nurturing, and always provided for them. Others were turned on by the Dominance and aggression of the alphas. When these females reproduced, they each had children with the genetic tendencies of their parents. The children of beta males turned out to be beta. The children of alpha males turned out to be alpha males themselves.
What happened though, is that alpha males eventually beat the shit out of the beta males and raped all their women. The children of beta males did not survive, the children of alpha males did. Evolution slowly weeded out all those women who were attracted to anything but the most dominant of men.
Today, there is only one type of female: those who like alpha males. The desire to be submissive to a dominant alpha male is one of the deepest and most important instincts of females of any species. If this instinct is so important, however, why do you hear nothing about it in mainstream sex literature?
The answer is that our society has made the female desire to be submissive to a dominant male taboo. Every one of us has been deluged with social programming like “men want to have sex, women want to make love” and “a woman wants a man who respects her” since grade school. Women are socially conditioned to repress their desire to be dominated, and men are conditioner to repress their desire to dominate. However, in the absence of Dominance there is no sexual satisfaction. While women will never speak about it and may not even be conscious of it themselves, they all deeply desire to be submissive to a powerful man.
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