LOVEMAKERTHE PERPETUAL LOVEMAKER

The Perpetual Lovemaker is the #1 most popular bedroom archetype in the world right now. Typically, perpetual lovemakers are safe, provider type guys. They’re usually level-headed and intelligent, and don’t take many risks. They’re not the bad boys that women fantasize about; they’re the guys that they settle down with.

The Perpetual Lovemaker takes the messages about respect for women that he hears every day to heart. He believes that women are equal to him in every way. In order to distinguish
himself from all the other jerks out there, he shows women that he respects them whenever they give him an opportunity to. He’s happy to help a woman out by doing favors for her, taking her out on dates, etc. He’s has so much respect for women, that he’s even happy to do this when the woman is not having sex with him.

Unsurprisingly, this guy doesn’t get laid very much. When he does get laid though, he carries his nice guy ways with him all the way to the bedroom. Because he respects women so deeply, in the bedroom he does not “fuck” a woman. He “makes love” to her. He treats her with the utmost respect and care, taking great pains to make sure that he does not make her uncomfortable at any point. If he wants to try something new in bed, he won’t just do it – that would be too presumptuous.

He’ll ask permission: “Honey, would you please go down on me today?” For some reason though, his woman doesn’t really want to do anything with him beyond plain vanilla missionary sex, and she doesn’t even show too much interest in this. He consoles himself that he’s found a “good girl” who “doesn’t do” things like anal sex, deep throat, or even just regular blowjobs.

Actually his girlfriend does these things all the time – just not with him.
The Perpetual Lovemaker’s girlfriend is deeply sexually frustrated. It is her nature as a woman to want to be dominated by an alpha male, and The Perpetual Lovemaker deprives her of this. She will retaliate with all sorts of bad behavior in relationships: arguing, withholding sex, neuroticism, and cheating. These behaviors, especially the cheating, are not her fault. In order to be psychologically healthy a woman needs dominant sex. Because he lacks the Dominance to satisfy her, The Perpetual Lovemaker compels his partner into these types of behaviors.