Dominanceattractive man, you will see a core of Dominance.

Not only is Dominance important, it is fundamental. This means that, a base level of Dominance is required to achieve success in the other three sexual Elements. For this reason,Dominance should be the first area of focus if you are a sexual novice.The way in which I discovered the importance of Dominance was through one of my first girlfriends. I had slowly been getting more dominant and realizing that girls were turned on by dominant guys, but the real breakthrough came one day with her in bed.We hadn’t seen each other for a while, and she was horny. That night we went out to a club together. She wore a skintight black dress, with black heels that screamed “fuck me.” We spent the night drinking and dancing together, with her rubbing her ass harder and harder against my crotch as we danced deep into the night. When we got back to my apartment and we will fuck get toghter.

At every point I expected her to tell me to stop, but every time I treated her more roughly, she got more turned on. She was talking dirty, and this girl was the master of talking dirty. At one point while I was fucking her from behind, she panted “Fuck me Dan, make me your bitch, make me scream so that everyone knows that I’m your bitch.” And I did. I railed the shit out of her doggy style for half an hour, and afterwords she told me it was the best sex she ever had. It was the best sex that I had ever had too. We both passed out afterwords, exhausted and sexually fulfilled. The funny thing was, the next morning she woke up and noticed that she was bleeding from her vagina.

I’d fucked her so hard that I’d ruptured something internally inside her, and she was in serious pain. Obviously, I’d fucked her way too hard for it to be physically pleasurable by itself. What I did to her would have been incredibly painful had it not been during sex. Yet, because she had the psychological stimulation of being dominated, she couldn’t even feel the pain at the time. It felt intensely pleasurable. Now this is an extreme case, but it did teach me a couple of important things.

First, that Dominance is a huge turn on for women. They need it and crave it. This girl was unusually sexually uninhibited and could say it to me. However, most girls are too inhibited to ask for it or even know consciously that they want it (even though they do). Secondly, it taught me the importance of psychological over physical stimulation. Even though that night I had provided horrible physical stimulation to the point where it should have been painful, the psychological stimulation I provided was so good that it overrode the physical aspects.