Showing posts with label sexual mastery. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexual mastery. Show all posts

Thursday, May 28, 2009

SEX IS THE ULTIMATE METHOD OF ATTRACTION ULTIMATE ATTRACTION

As well as being the ultimate human experience, sex is the ultimate way to make a female attracted to you. Although it is possible to create attraction in women by social means, this
seems like child’s play compared to the attraction you can create with sex.

We walk around every day with defense mechanisms up around us to protect our emotions. This is necessary, because we never know who might hurt us, so we have to keep somewhat aloof and distant. Social interactions can produce emotions of pleasure or displeasure, but we are careful to
never let these emotions go too far.

Sex is the most intensely emotional act we are capable of, and during sex it is impossible to shield our emotions. During and after sex, you can access the deepest of a woman’s emotions directly and create incredibly strong bonds of attraction. If you choose, you can make these bonds of
attraction unbreakable and permanent. This will ensure that the woman will be so deeply in love with you that she will literally do anything to support your cause.

Many guys bent on pickup up women will ask, “what is the point of attracting a woman after I’ve already had sex with her?” Lots of guys consider the first time you have sex with a woman the end of a seduction; I do not. I consider it the beginning.

I find that the first time you have sex with a woman is invariably the worst. You are not yet comfortable with each other’s bodies, and cannot yet get in touch with her instincts and desires. It’s cool to hook up for just a one night stand once in a while, but we all want to keep the highest quality women in our lives around. The way to do this is to give them what they really want: great sex. I find that these ongoing sexual relationships are invariably much more satisfying than a string of one-night stands.

Also, if you succeed in having a one-night stand with a woman, she will file you in the back of her memory as one of her emotionless casual encounters. If you take a woman to deeper levels of attraction through great sex, she will never forget you. Cynics say that women will always cheat in a relationship, but this is not the case. It is true that if a woman is sexually unsatisfied, she is almost guaranteed to cheat.

However, if you can provide her with better sex than anyone else, you have guaranteed her loyalty even if you are having sex with other girls yourself. There is no incentive for her to be unfaithful when nobody else can compare to you.

You can even use the power of great sex to get women to support your lifestyle in non-sexual ways. For example, you can have your girlfriends travel to meet you, do you favors, and buy you expensive gifts. Your girlfriends will be happy to do this because they are in love with you. This is a total reversal of the “normal” male-female relationship, where the male must use gifts and favors in order to get sex with the women. If you wish to be living this kind of lifestyle with
multiple women supporting you, the way to achieve it is through sexual mastery.

These are The Four Principles of Sexuality. They are what this book is based on, and what you should use as the basis of your sex life. Before I continue to go more in-depth into what you should do to become great in bed, I’m first going to first tell you what you should not do. I’ve identified four archetypes of guys who are incompetent lovers, and I’m going to lay out
their behavior in detail so that you know what to avoid.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

INSTINCT AND DESIRE OVER TECHNIQUE

As I said before, men frequently approach sex with a problem-solving mentality. They think that if they just learn the right moves, they will get a woman off. They buy endless sex books, hoping to mask their innate sexual deficiencies and insecurities with complex techniques learned from manuals.

This doesn’t work. What a woman wants is not a man who is an expert on the anatomy of the vagina, or someone who knows fifty-three different cunningulus techniques. What a woman truly wants is a man who understands sex at a deep level, who is in touch with his animal desires and free of inhibiting social conditioning. A man who is conscious that both he and the woman are beings designed for sex, and who can help her get in touch with her own animal nature.

It is overly simplistic to say that this means you should just “be natural” in bed. We are all deeply ingrained with social programming, which we cannot just forget on command. In addition to this, we all have insecurities which will prevent us from getting in touch with our true instincts. The process of overcoming these insecurities and breaking out of what a man “should” do in bed can be extremely difficult sometimes, but it is the only way to achieve sexual mastery. Learning complex techniques is never a good substitute. Although there are some techniques which are useful to know, I have found that achieving sexual mastery is not a matter of unlearning. learning. Largely, it is a matter of unlearning.