THE EMOTIONLESS ROBOTROBOT

Maybe you know a guy who picks up a lot of girls. You can see it as soon as you look at him. As soon as he rolls into a room, he just oozes coolness and high value. He doesn’t react emotionally to anything a girl might throw at him. And, this behavior is highly effective at getting girls into bed. (In fact, I recommend being emotionally unreactive to a degree in order to pick up girls.)

The problem The Emotionless Robot has is that he carries his lack of Emotion into the bedroom. He doesn’t even like sex that much. His main motivation for picking up girls isn’t sex –it’s validation. It’s the thrill of the hunt, and the ego boost he gets every time he realizes that he can actually have sex with an attractive woman. In other words, he doesn’t actually enjoy having sex; he just enjoys the fact that he’s having sex.

And although he puts up a front of being cool and untouchable, The Emotionless Robot is actually afraid. He is afraid to open himself up emotionally to a woman. Because of this, sex with an emotionless robot has a platonic, detached “friend with benefits” feel. He is completely emotionally invulnerable, and can feel neither pain nor passion.

The Emotionless Robot’s partner perceives this lack of passion, and it curtails her own emotions. Because Emotion is so important for good sex, especially for women, the sex is poor.

LOVEMAKERTHE PERPETUAL LOVEMAKER

The Perpetual Lovemaker is the #1 most popular bedroom archetype in the world right now. Typically, perpetual lovemakers are safe, provider type guys. They’re usually level-headed and intelligent, and don’t take many risks. They’re not the bad boys that women fantasize about; they’re the guys that they settle down with.

The Perpetual Lovemaker takes the messages about respect for women that he hears every day to heart. He believes that women are equal to him in every way. In order to distinguish
himself from all the other jerks out there, he shows women that he respects them whenever they give him an opportunity to. He’s happy to help a woman out by doing favors for her, taking her out on dates, etc. He’s has so much respect for women, that he’s even happy to do this when the woman is not having sex with him.

Unsurprisingly, this guy doesn’t get laid very much. When he does get laid though, he carries his nice guy ways with him all the way to the bedroom. Because he respects women so deeply, in the bedroom he does not “fuck” a woman. He “makes love” to her. He treats her with the utmost respect and care, taking great pains to make sure that he does not make her uncomfortable at any point. If he wants to try something new in bed, he won’t just do it – that would be too presumptuous.

He’ll ask permission: “Honey, would you please go down on me today?” For some reason though, his woman doesn’t really want to do anything with him beyond plain vanilla missionary sex, and she doesn’t even show too much interest in this. He consoles himself that he’s found a “good girl” who “doesn’t do” things like anal sex, deep throat, or even just regular blowjobs.

Actually his girlfriend does these things all the time – just not with him.
The Perpetual Lovemaker’s girlfriend is deeply sexually frustrated. It is her nature as a woman to want to be dominated by an alpha male, and The Perpetual Lovemaker deprives her of this. She will retaliate with all sorts of bad behavior in relationships: arguing, withholding sex, neuroticism, and cheating. These behaviors, especially the cheating, are not her fault. In order to be psychologically healthy a woman needs dominant sex. Because he lacks the Dominance to satisfy her, The Perpetual Lovemaker compels his partner into these types of behaviors.

OVERSTIMULATION

A common sexual problem with men is their obsession with the physical. Men frequently approach becoming good in bed with a problem-solving mentality, similar to learning how to

play chess. They think of women like machines. Rub the machine in a certain way for a certain amount of time, and bam, it produces an orgasm.

The reason why this mentality is incorrect is that it totally neglects the psychological aspect of sex. Although it is harder to see and understand than the physical, it is much more

important. Let me explain why:

Men spend billions of dollars every year on making themselves more attractive to the opposite sex. Whether it is on clothes, or on dates, or on seduction workshops, we each expend huge amounts of our time and money in order to make ourselves attractive for women. Yet, for about fifty bucks you could buy a sex toy which replicates the feeling of a vagina almost exactly.

So, why isn’t sex obsolete? Why don’t we just buy the toy, and consider this part of our life handled?

The answer is because while sex toys can provide physical stimulation, they can’t provide psychological stimulation. And, psychological stimulation is the most important aspect

of sex. Mere physical stimulation is just “getting off.”  Extraordinary psychological stimulation combined with basic physical stimulation is mind-blowing. Imagine the difference between masturbating and having sex with a beautiful woman. That is the difference that psychological stimulation makes.

Although psychological stimulation is important for men, it is ten times more important for women. Consider this: there are hundreds of different sex toys on the market. Women can

buy vibrators, dildos, vibrating dildos anything their hearts desire to give them absolutely perfect physical stimulation. In fact, many women do buy these toys to use for times they

can’t get sex. But, ask any woman and you will find out that these toys are a poor substitute for the real thing. Women don’t fantasize about buying a dozen batteries for their rabbit on a Saturday night and vibrating the shit out of themselves. They fantasize about sex.

It should be obvious that the key to becoming great in bed does not lie in ways to stimulate the body; it lies in ways to stimulate the mind. While physical technique has its place,

what will really drive a woman crazy is knowing how to arouse her on all the psychologically. Combine this arousal with basic physical technique, and you have a recipe for great sex.

The Four Principles Of Sexuality

Let me go back to the original question: How my sex experience is different from others?

In my journey towards sexual mastery, I tried almost everything out there. I read a lot of books specifying exactly what angle and with what degree of pressure to rub the clitoris, how many inches to insert your fingers into the vagina, etc.

While a basic knowledge of sexual technique did help me, the more complex techniques, which promised mind-blowing results, really didn’t work. Far from making me seem like a sex god, they made me seem like a gynecologist, constantly prying and experimenting.

After doing this for a while, I gave up all external sources of sexual knowledge and decided to learn bedroom skills on my own. When I had achieved sexual mastery, I noticed that there were a few underlying principles that defined everything which made me good in bed.

These are the things that separate the beta male sexual wannabes from the true alpha male bedroom superstars. The four important principals of sex are:

1. OVER STIMULATION
2. THE IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE
3. INSTINCT AND DESIRE OVER TECHNIQUE
4. SEX IS THE ULTIMATE METHOD OF ATTRACTION ULTIMATE ATTRACTION

How I Lost My Virginity?

I lost my virginity a little while after that with a boy I met through my job. We had been talking on the phone three or four times a week for about a month, and we’d been on a
few dates. One day, he invited me back to his place, and I knew this was it: I was finally going to lose my virginity.

As the clothes came off, I found that I was so nervous that my hands were shaking. When the time came, something horrifying happened: I couldn’t get an erection. All that work
making myself more attractive, and when the time came to actually have sex, I couldn’t get it up. It was humiliating. I felt shy, frightened. I never heard from him or saw him again.

After that, I vowed that I would do whatever it took to become good in bed. Throughout the next few years, my life went through an enormous transformation. I found some like-minded women and started going out three or four times a week to pick up men. It was a lot of work, but it was worth it. I went from an average dude to someone who was extraordinarily successful with women. Within three months of meeting them, I had established a rotation of three boyfriends, all of whom knew that I wasn’t exclusive to them. On top of that, I started getting regular hookups.

Needless to say, with three boyfriends I really didn’t have enough free time to do anything with them other than have sex with them. And with three boyfriends, that was a lot of sex. Soon, I was having sex more than anyone I knew.

Instead of spending eight hours a day playing Starcraft, I now spent eight hours a day having sex, recovering, and going at it again. Let me tell you, it was (and is) much more satisfying.

Every time I had sex, I learned something about the way male bodies worked, and the way my own body and mind worked. Every time, I became better. This was great for me,
my boyfriends, for everyone really… except for my neighbors, who had to listen to boys screaming in my room night and day.

Today, I am living a lifestyle that I would have considered a dream five years ago. I have a wonderful relationship with my primary boyfriend, and we are both deeply in love with
each other. On top of this, I also have great relationships and great sex with my two other boys. It seems for me that sex has become better and better each time I have it. How did I get here?

My Sex life story

Five years ago, I was a total nerd. My days consisted of attending classes and doing the bare minimum to get by in the real world, while playing Starcraft for six hours a day
with a cursory meal or two mixed in. The only friends I had were the ones who shared my video gaming obsession.

Needless to say, my only sexual outlet was internet porn. My life went on like this for a while, until eventually I got fed up with it. I got sick of seeing people having fun and living
life in the real world, while I only counted the hours until I could get back to my computer. I decided to do something about it.

I joined the parlor regularly. I got a better haircut, and everything to make better outlook, and made my appearance 100% better. Boys were now showing interest in me, but I still
didn’t have the social skills to actually get laid.

I found some basic resources on the internet which gave meadvice on becoming more confident and improving your social skills. Armed with these, I started making a proactive
effort to be social. Within six months I actually had a circle of friends. I started getting invited to parties and events, and even made out with a few girls.