Dominanceattractive man, you will see a core of Dominance.

Not only is Dominance important, it is fundamental. This means that, a base level of Dominance is required to achieve success in the other three sexual Elements. For this reason,Dominance should be the first area of focus if you are a sexual novice.The way in which I discovered the importance of Dominance was through one of my first girlfriends. I had slowly been getting more dominant and realizing that girls were turned on by dominant guys, but the real breakthrough came one day with her in bed.We hadn’t seen each other for a while, and she was horny. That night we went out to a club together. She wore a skintight black dress, with black heels that screamed “fuck me.” We spent the night drinking and dancing together, with her rubbing her ass harder and harder against my crotch as we danced deep into the night. When we got back to my apartment and we will fuck get toghter.

At every point I expected her to tell me to stop, but every time I treated her more roughly, she got more turned on. She was talking dirty, and this girl was the master of talking dirty. At one point while I was fucking her from behind, she panted “Fuck me Dan, make me your bitch, make me scream so that everyone knows that I’m your bitch.” And I did. I railed the shit out of her doggy style for half an hour, and afterwords she told me it was the best sex she ever had. It was the best sex that I had ever had too. We both passed out afterwords, exhausted and sexually fulfilled. The funny thing was, the next morning she woke up and noticed that she was bleeding from her vagina.

I’d fucked her so hard that I’d ruptured something internally inside her, and she was in serious pain. Obviously, I’d fucked her way too hard for it to be physically pleasurable by itself. What I did to her would have been incredibly painful had it not been during sex. Yet, because she had the psychological stimulation of being dominated, she couldn’t even feel the pain at the time. It felt intensely pleasurable. Now this is an extreme case, but it did teach me a couple of important things.

First, that Dominance is a huge turn on for women. They need it and crave it. This girl was unusually sexually uninhibited and could say it to me. However, most girls are too inhibited to ask for it or even know consciously that they want it (even though they do). Secondly, it taught me the importance of psychological over physical stimulation. Even though that night I had provided horrible physical stimulation to the point where it should have been painful, the psychological stimulation I provided was so good that it overrode the physical aspects.

POSITIONS BONDAGE DOMINANT SEXUAL POSITIONS AND LIGHT BONDAGE

Certain sexual positions are more dominant that others. Fucking doggy style is very dominant. She is on her hands and knees in front of you taking your cock, while you are towering above her thrusting. Her lying face down while you are on top of her is also dominant. Fucking a girl hard, deep and fast is dominant. This is what makes it good the physical component of rough sex alone is not. If you see girls masturbating, you won’t see them pounding the shit out of themselves.

They use moderate size vibrators and gentle, slow strokes. But, almost all women like to be fucked hard because they get off on being dominated so completely. Especially when your girl is highly aroused and has a level of Immersion which will sustain a high level of Dominance, don’t hesitate to use some force when fucking her. Light bondage is also a good way to put her in submissive positions. You don’t need to go out and buy a torture rack bondage is most effective when it doesn’t seem contrived.

The best responses I’ve had from girls are when I tie them up with a piece of my own clothing or theirs tie works well for this. Tell her you are my little pussy…I’m going to tie you up and fuck you so hard. Then, take her hands and tie them together in a secure, but not viciously tight knot.
Excessive tightness will make her hands fall asleep, which is annoying and will break her Immersion. You can either tie her hands in front of her or behind her back. Try both, and see which one she likes better. Then, fuck her in a dominant way, throwing in plenty of dirty and emotional talk. Emotion permeates every aspect of sex. A master of sex must also be a master of creating strong emotions. I can hear the objections already… “But I’m a tough guy manly man! I don’t want to deal with any emotional crap. That may be. However, this comes from a place of weakness. Guys who will not or cannot open themselves emotionally are that way for a reason: they are afraid of being hurt. This is common in guys who were formerly rejected frequently by women, but improved their social skills. The fear of rejection they inherited from their past of social failure carries over to the present.

This causes them to put up emotional walls around themselves. Their self destructive behavior sabotages their sex lives and relationships. If you can create strong emotions in a woman, the sex with her will be much better Period. For you, and especially for her. A woman will never be truly satisfied with emotionless sex; it is just something to tide her over until she can find successfully satisfying sexual relationship. Once she finds that, you’re gone. And, once you stop restricting yourself to platonic “friends with benefits,” you’ll be surprised by how much better the sex is for you as well. The superior sexual pleasure you can create with strong emotions will also make your girls much more loyal to you. If you’re interested in an exclusive relationship, this is obviously important. But even if you are not, making your girlfriends loyal will benefit your relationship life immensely. You will get much higher levels of compliance with ease.

A highly converted girl with a strong emotional attachment to you will almost never have sex with other men, even though she knows that you are having sex with other women. And, she’ll gladly clear her schedule for you, do favors for you, and pay for dates and gifts if the sex is good enough. Although women are conditioned by society to want an exclusive relationship with guys they have strong emotions for, with proper management jealousy can be almost eliminated. The important thing is to get her so strongly attached to you that it would hurt too much for her to ever leave you.

Once you can achieve this, she will accept any terms that you set for the relationship. If you frame it in the right way and make her feel well qualified, she will be just as satisfied with this type of relationship as with an exclusive relationship.

TECHNICIANTHE BEDROOM TECHNICIAN

The Bedroom Technician knows everything about sex. After his first few sexual experiences were embarrassing and frustrating, he went on a quest to become a bedroom stud that women would sexually respond to.

To this end, he’s bought endless books on sexual technique. He’s spent countless nights reading information on the internet, continually learning new sexual positions, new ways to hit the G-spot, new ways to do everything. He always craves more information about sex. No matter how much he’s read it’s never enough, he always wants to know more, more,more.

To The Bedroom Technician, sex is a matter of angles and inches, positions and correct stimulation. Everything he does in bed is technically perfect. He’ll even log onto the internet and give advice, and guys will look up to him as an online sex guru.

Despite all his knowledge, his girlfriend is frustrated with him. She wants a man to fuck her, not a scientist performing gynecology experiments. He doesn’t understand that
complex physical technique really doesn’t make you any better in bed. It sounds impressive on an internet forum, but in real life it’s ineffective.

Ultimately, the problem of The Bedroom Technician is that he thinks too much and tries to “figure out” sex. Instead of doing this, he should use basic physical technique and
concentrate his efforts on providing extraordinary psychological stimulation.

What do all of these archetypes have in common?
Each one of them represents someone who is deficient in one of the Four Elements of sexuality. More specifically, someone who is deficient in one of the Four psychological Elements of sexuality. These psychological Elements are the foundation of good sex.