UNDERSTANDING GRAPHS – AN EASY WAY TO UNDERSTAND SEX METHOD

The Sex God Method is a dynamic system. The basic idea behind it is that all Four Elements are critical to sexual mastery. Although there is a usual order in which to escalate the Elements, it is possible to escalate them in any order or combination. A guiding principle to use when modeling your sexual encounters with DEVI is that of the weakest link. This substantially below the others, the quality of your sex will be limited to how much progress you have made in this Element.Element later on, you will learn when you can break this rule and make your sex temporarily unbalanced in the short term, but in the long term you want to escalate each sexual Element in a balanced way.

To improve yourself in bed, reflect on your behavior and determine which sexual Element you are weakest in. Then, concentrate your efforts on improving this Element. To describe sexual situations in terms of the Sex God Method, this book will often use bar graphs. In these graphs, D will stand for Dominance, E for Emotion, V for Variety, and I for Immersion. In each Element, the higher the bar is, the more appeal the person or situation has in that Element.

Let’s go back to our archetypes of bad sexual lovers from Chapter 3 for a moment, and diagnose their problems through DEVI graphs. Recall, The Emotionless Robot, who does everything else right, but is unable to feel strong emotions or evoke and sustain strong emotions in the girl. You can see that his graph is unbalanced, with Emotion being the weak link. In this case, becoming more skilled in the other Elements won’t do this guy any good. If he wants to become better in bed, he should concentrate on injecting more Emotion into his sex life. This will balance his graph, and eliminate this is used most in sex.

Dominanceattractive man, you will see a core of Dominance.

Not only is Dominance important, it is fundamental. This means that, a base level of Dominance is required to achieve success in the other three sexual Elements. For this reason,Dominance should be the first area of focus if you are a sexual novice.The way in which I discovered the importance of Dominance was through one of my first girlfriends. I had slowly been getting more dominant and realizing that girls were turned on by dominant guys, but the real breakthrough came one day with her in bed.We hadn’t seen each other for a while, and she was horny. That night we went out to a club together. She wore a skintight black dress, with black heels that screamed “fuck me.” We spent the night drinking and dancing together, with her rubbing her ass harder and harder against my crotch as we danced deep into the night. When we got back to my apartment and we will fuck get toghter.

At every point I expected her to tell me to stop, but every time I treated her more roughly, she got more turned on. She was talking dirty, and this girl was the master of talking dirty. At one point while I was fucking her from behind, she panted “Fuck me Dan, make me your bitch, make me scream so that everyone knows that I’m your bitch.” And I did. I railed the shit out of her doggy style for half an hour, and afterwords she told me it was the best sex she ever had. It was the best sex that I had ever had too. We both passed out afterwords, exhausted and sexually fulfilled. The funny thing was, the next morning she woke up and noticed that she was bleeding from her vagina.

I’d fucked her so hard that I’d ruptured something internally inside her, and she was in serious pain. Obviously, I’d fucked her way too hard for it to be physically pleasurable by itself. What I did to her would have been incredibly painful had it not been during sex. Yet, because she had the psychological stimulation of being dominated, she couldn’t even feel the pain at the time. It felt intensely pleasurable. Now this is an extreme case, but it did teach me a couple of important things.

First, that Dominance is a huge turn on for women. They need it and crave it. This girl was unusually sexually uninhibited and could say it to me. However, most girls are too inhibited to ask for it or even know consciously that they want it (even though they do). Secondly, it taught me the importance of psychological over physical stimulation. Even though that night I had provided horrible physical stimulation to the point where it should have been painful, the psychological stimulation I provided was so good that it overrode the physical aspects.

Four Archetypes of Sexual Failure

Men who are bad in bed make an almost innumerable number of different mistakes while having sex. In order to learn what to avoid in bed, it is counterproductive to learn every technical mistake. This will lead to thinking too much in bed, which is in itself a huge mistake.

Instead, learn the underlying beliefs and personality traits that are the root cause of these bad behaviors. Rather than trying to avoid the physical manifestations of these problems, you should attack your problems at their root – the mindsets which cause them. The following four archetypes are typical personality traits of men who share a common bad mindset. Examine these archetypes carefully, and be honest with yourself: do you see any part of yourself in these archetypes?

Recognize your bedroom sticking points now, so that you know what you need to improve.

The four archetypes of sexual failures are :

• LOVEMAKERTHE PERPETUAL LOVEMAKER
• THE EMOTIONLESS ROBOTROBOT
• MONOTONOUSTHE MONOTONOUS PLODDER
• TECHNICIANTHE BEDROOM TECHNICIAN

The Four Principles Of Sexuality

Let me go back to the original question: How my sex experience is different from others?

In my journey towards sexual mastery, I tried almost everything out there. I read a lot of books specifying exactly what angle and with what degree of pressure to rub the clitoris, how many inches to insert your fingers into the vagina, etc.

While a basic knowledge of sexual technique did help me, the more complex techniques, which promised mind-blowing results, really didn’t work. Far from making me seem like a sex god, they made me seem like a gynecologist, constantly prying and experimenting.

After doing this for a while, I gave up all external sources of sexual knowledge and decided to learn bedroom skills on my own. When I had achieved sexual mastery, I noticed that there were a few underlying principles that defined everything which made me good in bed.

These are the things that separate the beta male sexual wannabes from the true alpha male bedroom superstars. The four important principals of sex are:

1. OVER STIMULATION
2. THE IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE
3. INSTINCT AND DESIRE OVER TECHNIQUE
4. SEX IS THE ULTIMATE METHOD OF ATTRACTION ULTIMATE ATTRACTION