UNDERSTANDING GRAPHS – AN EASY WAY TO UNDERSTAND SEX METHOD

The Sex God Method is a dynamic system. The basic idea behind it is that all Four Elements are critical to sexual mastery. Although there is a usual order in which to escalate the Elements, it is possible to escalate them in any order or combination. A guiding principle to use when modeling your sexual encounters with DEVI is that of the weakest link. This substantially below the others, the quality of your sex will be limited to how much progress you have made in this Element.Element later on, you will learn when you can break this rule and make your sex temporarily unbalanced in the short term, but in the long term you want to escalate each sexual Element in a balanced way.

To improve yourself in bed, reflect on your behavior and determine which sexual Element you are weakest in. Then, concentrate your efforts on improving this Element. To describe sexual situations in terms of the Sex God Method, this book will often use bar graphs. In these graphs, D will stand for Dominance, E for Emotion, V for Variety, and I for Immersion. In each Element, the higher the bar is, the more appeal the person or situation has in that Element.

Let’s go back to our archetypes of bad sexual lovers from Chapter 3 for a moment, and diagnose their problems through DEVI graphs. Recall, The Emotionless Robot, who does everything else right, but is unable to feel strong emotions or evoke and sustain strong emotions in the girl. You can see that his graph is unbalanced, with Emotion being the weak link. In this case, becoming more skilled in the other Elements won’t do this guy any good. If he wants to become better in bed, he should concentrate on injecting more Emotion into his sex life. This will balance his graph, and eliminate this is used most in sex.

MONOTONOUSTHE MONOTONOUS PLODDER

The Monotonous Plodder will have sex with a girl a few times, and it’ll be great. She’ll cum multiple times and start to develop strong emotions towards him. Because he’s doingeverything right in the bedroom, she soon wants a relationship with him.
The problem is, after the initial “honeymoon” period of the relationship, the sex starts to go downhill. It’s nothing sudden or dramatic, but after a while it just doesn’t seem like the
spark is there anymore. The girl loses interest, and breaks up with him.

The Monotonous Plodder will then write this off as inevitable, because people inevitably get bored with having sex with each other for an extended period of time. But this isn’t true. A guy who is creative and good in bed can keep a sexual relationship fresh and exciting for a lifetime.

So then, what was the plodder’s mistake? He was doing everything right in the beginning. What he didn’t realize though, is that too much of a good thing is a bad thing. He didn’t add any Variety into the sexual relationship. Instead of an irresistible desire, sex became a scheduled obligation for the girl. She knew exactly what was going to happen, when it
was going to happen, and how it was going to happen. This monotony killed the sexual attraction she felt for him.

THE EMOTIONLESS ROBOTROBOT

Maybe you know a guy who picks up a lot of girls. You can see it as soon as you look at him. As soon as he rolls into a room, he just oozes coolness and high value. He doesn’t react emotionally to anything a girl might throw at him. And, this behavior is highly effective at getting girls into bed. (In fact, I recommend being emotionally unreactive to a degree in order to pick up girls.)

The problem The Emotionless Robot has is that he carries his lack of Emotion into the bedroom. He doesn’t even like sex that much. His main motivation for picking up girls isn’t sex –it’s validation. It’s the thrill of the hunt, and the ego boost he gets every time he realizes that he can actually have sex with an attractive woman. In other words, he doesn’t actually enjoy having sex; he just enjoys the fact that he’s having sex.

And although he puts up a front of being cool and untouchable, The Emotionless Robot is actually afraid. He is afraid to open himself up emotionally to a woman. Because of this, sex with an emotionless robot has a platonic, detached “friend with benefits” feel. He is completely emotionally invulnerable, and can feel neither pain nor passion.

The Emotionless Robot’s partner perceives this lack of passion, and it curtails her own emotions. Because Emotion is so important for good sex, especially for women, the sex is poor.

TECHNICIANTHE BEDROOM TECHNICIAN

The Bedroom Technician knows everything about sex. After his first few sexual experiences were embarrassing and frustrating, he went on a quest to become a bedroom stud that women would sexually respond to.

To this end, he’s bought endless books on sexual technique. He’s spent countless nights reading information on the internet, continually learning new sexual positions, new ways to hit the G-spot, new ways to do everything. He always craves more information about sex. No matter how much he’s read it’s never enough, he always wants to know more, more,more.

To The Bedroom Technician, sex is a matter of angles and inches, positions and correct stimulation. Everything he does in bed is technically perfect. He’ll even log onto the internet and give advice, and guys will look up to him as an online sex guru.

Despite all his knowledge, his girlfriend is frustrated with him. She wants a man to fuck her, not a scientist performing gynecology experiments. He doesn’t understand that
complex physical technique really doesn’t make you any better in bed. It sounds impressive on an internet forum, but in real life it’s ineffective.

Ultimately, the problem of The Bedroom Technician is that he thinks too much and tries to “figure out” sex. Instead of doing this, he should use basic physical technique and
concentrate his efforts on providing extraordinary psychological stimulation.

What do all of these archetypes have in common?
Each one of them represents someone who is deficient in one of the Four Elements of sexuality. More specifically, someone who is deficient in one of the Four psychological Elements of sexuality. These psychological Elements are the foundation of good sex.