The Sex God Method is a dynamic system. The basic idea behind it is that all Four Elements are critical to sexual mastery. Although there is a usual order in which to escalate the Elements, it is possible to escalate them in any order or combination. A guiding principle to use when modeling your sexual encounters with DEVI is that of the weakest link. This substantially below the others, the quality of your sex will be limited to how much progress you have made in this Element.Element later on, you will learn when you can break this rule and make your sex temporarily unbalanced in the short term, but in the long term you want to escalate each sexual Element in a balanced way.
To improve yourself in bed, reflect on your behavior and determine which sexual Element you are weakest in. Then, concentrate your efforts on improving this Element. To describe sexual situations in terms of the Sex God Method, this book will often use bar graphs. In these graphs, D will stand for Dominance, E for Emotion, V for Variety, and I for Immersion. In each Element, the higher the bar is, the more appeal the person or situation has in that Element.
Let’s go back to our archetypes of bad sexual lovers from Chapter 3 for a moment, and diagnose their problems through DEVI graphs. Recall, The Emotionless Robot, who does everything else right, but is unable to feel strong emotions or evoke and sustain strong emotions in the girl. You can see that his graph is unbalanced, with Emotion being the weak link. In this case, becoming more skilled in the other Elements won’t do this guy any good. If he wants to become better in bed, he should concentrate on injecting more Emotion into his sex life. This will balance his graph, and eliminate this is used most in sex.
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Thursday, June 25, 2009
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE
This is something that you will find no mention of in mainstream sexual literature. But yet, it is a critically important aspect of great sex. Dominance is an extremely important sexual characteristic for a man because millions of years of evolution have programmed women to respond instinctually to dominant men.
Consider this: tens of thousands of years ago, our human ancestors were tribes of hunters. There were two types of males in this society: the alpha males, and the beta males. The alpha males were the dominant, aggressive males. They were the ones at the top of the tribal society, and they made the rules. The beta males were the smaller, weaker males. They were submissive to the alphas. Now consider that there were two types of females in this primitive society: those who liked alpha males, and those who liked beta males. Some liked how the betas were gentle,
and nurturing, and always provided for them. Others were turned on by the Dominance and aggression of the alphas. When these females reproduced, they each had children with the genetic tendencies of their parents. The children of beta males turned out to be beta. The children of alpha males turned out to be alpha males themselves.
What happened though, is that alpha males eventually beat the shit out of the beta males and raped all their women. The children of beta males did not survive, the children of alpha males did. Evolution slowly weeded out all those women who were attracted to anything but the most dominant of men.
Today, there is only one type of female: those who like alpha males. The desire to be submissive to a dominant alpha male is one of the deepest and most important instincts of females of any species. If this instinct is so important, however, why do you hear nothing about it in mainstream sex literature?
The answer is that our society has made the female desire to be submissive to a dominant male taboo. Every one of us has been deluged with social programming like “men want to have sex, women want to make love” and “a woman wants a man who respects her” since grade school. Women are socially conditioned to repress their desire to be dominated, and men are conditioner to repress their desire to dominate. However, in the absence of Dominance there is no sexual satisfaction. While women will never speak about it and may not even be conscious of it themselves, they all deeply desire to be submissive to a powerful man.
Consider this: tens of thousands of years ago, our human ancestors were tribes of hunters. There were two types of males in this society: the alpha males, and the beta males. The alpha males were the dominant, aggressive males. They were the ones at the top of the tribal society, and they made the rules. The beta males were the smaller, weaker males. They were submissive to the alphas. Now consider that there were two types of females in this primitive society: those who liked alpha males, and those who liked beta males. Some liked how the betas were gentle,
and nurturing, and always provided for them. Others were turned on by the Dominance and aggression of the alphas. When these females reproduced, they each had children with the genetic tendencies of their parents. The children of beta males turned out to be beta. The children of alpha males turned out to be alpha males themselves.
What happened though, is that alpha males eventually beat the shit out of the beta males and raped all their women. The children of beta males did not survive, the children of alpha males did. Evolution slowly weeded out all those women who were attracted to anything but the most dominant of men.
Today, there is only one type of female: those who like alpha males. The desire to be submissive to a dominant alpha male is one of the deepest and most important instincts of females of any species. If this instinct is so important, however, why do you hear nothing about it in mainstream sex literature?
The answer is that our society has made the female desire to be submissive to a dominant male taboo. Every one of us has been deluged with social programming like “men want to have sex, women want to make love” and “a woman wants a man who respects her” since grade school. Women are socially conditioned to repress their desire to be dominated, and men are conditioner to repress their desire to dominate. However, in the absence of Dominance there is no sexual satisfaction. While women will never speak about it and may not even be conscious of it themselves, they all deeply desire to be submissive to a powerful man.
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