As well as being the ultimate human experience, sex is the ultimate way to make a female attracted to you. Although it is possible to create attraction in women by social means, this
seems like child’s play compared to the attraction you can create with sex.
We walk around every day with defense mechanisms up around us to protect our emotions. This is necessary, because we never know who might hurt us, so we have to keep somewhat aloof and distant. Social interactions can produce emotions of pleasure or displeasure, but we are careful to
never let these emotions go too far.
Sex is the most intensely emotional act we are capable of, and during sex it is impossible to shield our emotions. During and after sex, you can access the deepest of a woman’s emotions directly and create incredibly strong bonds of attraction. If you choose, you can make these bonds of
attraction unbreakable and permanent. This will ensure that the woman will be so deeply in love with you that she will literally do anything to support your cause.
Many guys bent on pickup up women will ask, “what is the point of attracting a woman after I’ve already had sex with her?” Lots of guys consider the first time you have sex with a woman the end of a seduction; I do not. I consider it the beginning.
I find that the first time you have sex with a woman is invariably the worst. You are not yet comfortable with each other’s bodies, and cannot yet get in touch with her instincts and desires. It’s cool to hook up for just a one night stand once in a while, but we all want to keep the highest quality women in our lives around. The way to do this is to give them what they really want: great sex. I find that these ongoing sexual relationships are invariably much more satisfying than a string of one-night stands.
Also, if you succeed in having a one-night stand with a woman, she will file you in the back of her memory as one of her emotionless casual encounters. If you take a woman to deeper levels of attraction through great sex, she will never forget you. Cynics say that women will always cheat in a relationship, but this is not the case. It is true that if a woman is sexually unsatisfied, she is almost guaranteed to cheat.
However, if you can provide her with better sex than anyone else, you have guaranteed her loyalty even if you are having sex with other girls yourself. There is no incentive for her to be unfaithful when nobody else can compare to you.
You can even use the power of great sex to get women to support your lifestyle in non-sexual ways. For example, you can have your girlfriends travel to meet you, do you favors, and buy you expensive gifts. Your girlfriends will be happy to do this because they are in love with you. This is a total reversal of the “normal” male-female relationship, where the male must use gifts and favors in order to get sex with the women. If you wish to be living this kind of lifestyle with
multiple women supporting you, the way to achieve it is through sexual mastery.
These are The Four Principles of Sexuality. They are what this book is based on, and what you should use as the basis of your sex life. Before I continue to go more in-depth into what you should do to become great in bed, I’m first going to first tell you what you should not do. I’ve identified four archetypes of guys who are incompetent lovers, and I’m going to lay out
their behavior in detail so that you know what to avoid.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
INSTINCT AND DESIRE OVER TECHNIQUE
As I said before, men frequently approach sex with a problem-solving mentality. They think that if they just learn the right moves, they will get a woman off. They buy endless sex books, hoping to mask their innate sexual deficiencies and insecurities with complex techniques learned from manuals.
This doesn’t work. What a woman wants is not a man who is an expert on the anatomy of the vagina, or someone who knows fifty-three different cunningulus techniques. What a woman truly wants is a man who understands sex at a deep level, who is in touch with his animal desires and free of inhibiting social conditioning. A man who is conscious that both he and the woman are beings designed for sex, and who can help her get in touch with her own animal nature.
It is overly simplistic to say that this means you should just “be natural” in bed. We are all deeply ingrained with social programming, which we cannot just forget on command. In addition to this, we all have insecurities which will prevent us from getting in touch with our true instincts. The process of overcoming these insecurities and breaking out of what a man “should” do in bed can be extremely difficult sometimes, but it is the only way to achieve sexual mastery. Learning complex techniques is never a good substitute. Although there are some techniques which are useful to know, I have found that achieving sexual mastery is not a matter of unlearning. learning. Largely, it is a matter of unlearning.
This doesn’t work. What a woman wants is not a man who is an expert on the anatomy of the vagina, or someone who knows fifty-three different cunningulus techniques. What a woman truly wants is a man who understands sex at a deep level, who is in touch with his animal desires and free of inhibiting social conditioning. A man who is conscious that both he and the woman are beings designed for sex, and who can help her get in touch with her own animal nature.
It is overly simplistic to say that this means you should just “be natural” in bed. We are all deeply ingrained with social programming, which we cannot just forget on command. In addition to this, we all have insecurities which will prevent us from getting in touch with our true instincts. The process of overcoming these insecurities and breaking out of what a man “should” do in bed can be extremely difficult sometimes, but it is the only way to achieve sexual mastery. Learning complex techniques is never a good substitute. Although there are some techniques which are useful to know, I have found that achieving sexual mastery is not a matter of unlearning. learning. Largely, it is a matter of unlearning.
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE
This is something that you will find no mention of in mainstream sexual literature. But yet, it is a critically important aspect of great sex. Dominance is an extremely important sexual characteristic for a man because millions of years of evolution have programmed women to respond instinctually to dominant men.
Consider this: tens of thousands of years ago, our human ancestors were tribes of hunters. There were two types of males in this society: the alpha males, and the beta males. The alpha males were the dominant, aggressive males. They were the ones at the top of the tribal society, and they made the rules. The beta males were the smaller, weaker males. They were submissive to the alphas. Now consider that there were two types of females in this primitive society: those who liked alpha males, and those who liked beta males. Some liked how the betas were gentle,
and nurturing, and always provided for them. Others were turned on by the Dominance and aggression of the alphas. When these females reproduced, they each had children with the genetic tendencies of their parents. The children of beta males turned out to be beta. The children of alpha males turned out to be alpha males themselves.
What happened though, is that alpha males eventually beat the shit out of the beta males and raped all their women. The children of beta males did not survive, the children of alpha males did. Evolution slowly weeded out all those women who were attracted to anything but the most dominant of men.
Today, there is only one type of female: those who like alpha males. The desire to be submissive to a dominant alpha male is one of the deepest and most important instincts of females of any species. If this instinct is so important, however, why do you hear nothing about it in mainstream sex literature?
The answer is that our society has made the female desire to be submissive to a dominant male taboo. Every one of us has been deluged with social programming like “men want to have sex, women want to make love” and “a woman wants a man who respects her” since grade school. Women are socially conditioned to repress their desire to be dominated, and men are conditioner to repress their desire to dominate. However, in the absence of Dominance there is no sexual satisfaction. While women will never speak about it and may not even be conscious of it themselves, they all deeply desire to be submissive to a powerful man.
Consider this: tens of thousands of years ago, our human ancestors were tribes of hunters. There were two types of males in this society: the alpha males, and the beta males. The alpha males were the dominant, aggressive males. They were the ones at the top of the tribal society, and they made the rules. The beta males were the smaller, weaker males. They were submissive to the alphas. Now consider that there were two types of females in this primitive society: those who liked alpha males, and those who liked beta males. Some liked how the betas were gentle,
and nurturing, and always provided for them. Others were turned on by the Dominance and aggression of the alphas. When these females reproduced, they each had children with the genetic tendencies of their parents. The children of beta males turned out to be beta. The children of alpha males turned out to be alpha males themselves.
What happened though, is that alpha males eventually beat the shit out of the beta males and raped all their women. The children of beta males did not survive, the children of alpha males did. Evolution slowly weeded out all those women who were attracted to anything but the most dominant of men.
Today, there is only one type of female: those who like alpha males. The desire to be submissive to a dominant alpha male is one of the deepest and most important instincts of females of any species. If this instinct is so important, however, why do you hear nothing about it in mainstream sex literature?
The answer is that our society has made the female desire to be submissive to a dominant male taboo. Every one of us has been deluged with social programming like “men want to have sex, women want to make love” and “a woman wants a man who respects her” since grade school. Women are socially conditioned to repress their desire to be dominated, and men are conditioner to repress their desire to dominate. However, in the absence of Dominance there is no sexual satisfaction. While women will never speak about it and may not even be conscious of it themselves, they all deeply desire to be submissive to a powerful man.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
OVERSTIMULATION
A common sexual problem with men is their obsession with the physical. Men frequently approach becoming good in bed with a problem-solving mentality, similar to learning how to
play chess. They think of women like machines. Rub the machine in a certain way for a certain amount of time, and bam, it produces an orgasm.
The reason why this mentality is incorrect is that it totally neglects the psychological aspect of sex. Although it is harder to see and understand than the physical, it is much more
important. Let me explain why:
Men spend billions of dollars every year on making themselves more attractive to the opposite sex. Whether it is on clothes, or on dates, or on seduction workshops, we each expend huge amounts of our time and money in order to make ourselves attractive for women. Yet, for about fifty bucks you could buy a sex toy which replicates the feeling of a vagina almost exactly.
So, why isn’t sex obsolete? Why don’t we just buy the toy, and consider this part of our life handled?
The answer is because while sex toys can provide physical stimulation, they can’t provide psychological stimulation. And, psychological stimulation is the most important aspect
of sex. Mere physical stimulation is just “getting off.” Extraordinary psychological stimulation combined with basic physical stimulation is mind-blowing. Imagine the difference between masturbating and having sex with a beautiful woman. That is the difference that psychological stimulation makes.
Although psychological stimulation is important for men, it is ten times more important for women. Consider this: there are hundreds of different sex toys on the market. Women can
buy vibrators, dildos, vibrating dildos anything their hearts desire to give them absolutely perfect physical stimulation. In fact, many women do buy these toys to use for times they
can’t get sex. But, ask any woman and you will find out that these toys are a poor substitute for the real thing. Women don’t fantasize about buying a dozen batteries for their rabbit on a Saturday night and vibrating the shit out of themselves. They fantasize about sex.
It should be obvious that the key to becoming great in bed does not lie in ways to stimulate the body; it lies in ways to stimulate the mind. While physical technique has its place,
what will really drive a woman crazy is knowing how to arouse her on all the psychologically. Combine this arousal with basic physical technique, and you have a recipe for great sex.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
The Four Principles Of Sexuality
Let me go back to the original question: How my sex experience is different from others?
In my journey towards sexual mastery, I tried almost everything out there. I read a lot of books specifying exactly what angle and with what degree of pressure to rub the clitoris, how many inches to insert your fingers into the vagina, etc.
While a basic knowledge of sexual technique did help me, the more complex techniques, which promised mind-blowing results, really didn’t work. Far from making me seem like a sex god, they made me seem like a gynecologist, constantly prying and experimenting.
After doing this for a while, I gave up all external sources of sexual knowledge and decided to learn bedroom skills on my own. When I had achieved sexual mastery, I noticed that there were a few underlying principles that defined everything which made me good in bed.
These are the things that separate the beta male sexual wannabes from the true alpha male bedroom superstars. The four important principals of sex are:
1. OVER STIMULATION
2. THE IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE
3. INSTINCT AND DESIRE OVER TECHNIQUE
4. SEX IS THE ULTIMATE METHOD OF ATTRACTION ULTIMATE ATTRACTION
In my journey towards sexual mastery, I tried almost everything out there. I read a lot of books specifying exactly what angle and with what degree of pressure to rub the clitoris, how many inches to insert your fingers into the vagina, etc.
While a basic knowledge of sexual technique did help me, the more complex techniques, which promised mind-blowing results, really didn’t work. Far from making me seem like a sex god, they made me seem like a gynecologist, constantly prying and experimenting.
After doing this for a while, I gave up all external sources of sexual knowledge and decided to learn bedroom skills on my own. When I had achieved sexual mastery, I noticed that there were a few underlying principles that defined everything which made me good in bed.
These are the things that separate the beta male sexual wannabes from the true alpha male bedroom superstars. The four important principals of sex are:
1. OVER STIMULATION
2. THE IMPORTANCE OF DOMINANCE
3. INSTINCT AND DESIRE OVER TECHNIQUE
4. SEX IS THE ULTIMATE METHOD OF ATTRACTION ULTIMATE ATTRACTION
Monday, May 18, 2009
How I Lost My Virginity?
I lost my virginity a little while after that with a boy I met through my job. We had been talking on the phone three or four times a week for about a month, and we’d been on a
few dates. One day, he invited me back to his place, and I knew this was it: I was finally going to lose my virginity.
As the clothes came off, I found that I was so nervous that my hands were shaking. When the time came, something horrifying happened: I couldn’t get an erection. All that work
making myself more attractive, and when the time came to actually have sex, I couldn’t get it up. It was humiliating. I felt shy, frightened. I never heard from him or saw him again.
After that, I vowed that I would do whatever it took to become good in bed. Throughout the next few years, my life went through an enormous transformation. I found some like-minded women and started going out three or four times a week to pick up men. It was a lot of work, but it was worth it. I went from an average dude to someone who was extraordinarily successful with women. Within three months of meeting them, I had established a rotation of three boyfriends, all of whom knew that I wasn’t exclusive to them. On top of that, I started getting regular hookups.
Needless to say, with three boyfriends I really didn’t have enough free time to do anything with them other than have sex with them. And with three boyfriends, that was a lot of sex. Soon, I was having sex more than anyone I knew.
Instead of spending eight hours a day playing Starcraft, I now spent eight hours a day having sex, recovering, and going at it again. Let me tell you, it was (and is) much more satisfying.
Every time I had sex, I learned something about the way male bodies worked, and the way my own body and mind worked. Every time, I became better. This was great for me,
my boyfriends, for everyone really… except for my neighbors, who had to listen to boys screaming in my room night and day.
Today, I am living a lifestyle that I would have considered a dream five years ago. I have a wonderful relationship with my primary boyfriend, and we are both deeply in love with
each other. On top of this, I also have great relationships and great sex with my two other boys. It seems for me that sex has become better and better each time I have it. How did I get here?
few dates. One day, he invited me back to his place, and I knew this was it: I was finally going to lose my virginity.
As the clothes came off, I found that I was so nervous that my hands were shaking. When the time came, something horrifying happened: I couldn’t get an erection. All that work
making myself more attractive, and when the time came to actually have sex, I couldn’t get it up. It was humiliating. I felt shy, frightened. I never heard from him or saw him again.
After that, I vowed that I would do whatever it took to become good in bed. Throughout the next few years, my life went through an enormous transformation. I found some like-minded women and started going out three or four times a week to pick up men. It was a lot of work, but it was worth it. I went from an average dude to someone who was extraordinarily successful with women. Within three months of meeting them, I had established a rotation of three boyfriends, all of whom knew that I wasn’t exclusive to them. On top of that, I started getting regular hookups.
Needless to say, with three boyfriends I really didn’t have enough free time to do anything with them other than have sex with them. And with three boyfriends, that was a lot of sex. Soon, I was having sex more than anyone I knew.
Instead of spending eight hours a day playing Starcraft, I now spent eight hours a day having sex, recovering, and going at it again. Let me tell you, it was (and is) much more satisfying.
Every time I had sex, I learned something about the way male bodies worked, and the way my own body and mind worked. Every time, I became better. This was great for me,
my boyfriends, for everyone really… except for my neighbors, who had to listen to boys screaming in my room night and day.
Today, I am living a lifestyle that I would have considered a dream five years ago. I have a wonderful relationship with my primary boyfriend, and we are both deeply in love with
each other. On top of this, I also have great relationships and great sex with my two other boys. It seems for me that sex has become better and better each time I have it. How did I get here?
Sunday, May 17, 2009
My Sex life story
Five years ago, I was a total nerd. My days consisted of attending classes and doing the bare minimum to get by in the real world, while playing Starcraft for six hours a day
with a cursory meal or two mixed in. The only friends I had were the ones who shared my video gaming obsession.
Needless to say, my only sexual outlet was internet porn. My life went on like this for a while, until eventually I got fed up with it. I got sick of seeing people having fun and living
life in the real world, while I only counted the hours until I could get back to my computer. I decided to do something about it.
I joined the parlor regularly. I got a better haircut, and everything to make better outlook, and made my appearance 100% better. Boys were now showing interest in me, but I still
didn’t have the social skills to actually get laid.
I found some basic resources on the internet which gave meadvice on becoming more confident and improving your social skills. Armed with these, I started making a proactive
effort to be social. Within six months I actually had a circle of friends. I started getting invited to parties and events, and even made out with a few girls.
with a cursory meal or two mixed in. The only friends I had were the ones who shared my video gaming obsession.
Needless to say, my only sexual outlet was internet porn. My life went on like this for a while, until eventually I got fed up with it. I got sick of seeing people having fun and living
life in the real world, while I only counted the hours until I could get back to my computer. I decided to do something about it.
I joined the parlor regularly. I got a better haircut, and everything to make better outlook, and made my appearance 100% better. Boys were now showing interest in me, but I still
didn’t have the social skills to actually get laid.
I found some basic resources on the internet which gave meadvice on becoming more confident and improving your social skills. Armed with these, I started making a proactive
effort to be social. Within six months I actually had a circle of friends. I started getting invited to parties and events, and even made out with a few girls.
Saturday, May 16, 2009
What Is Sex?
Sex is the ultimate human experience. If you’re good at sex, there’s absolutely nothing like it. The experience becomes one of mind-blowing ecstasy for both you and your partner.
Instead of the usual mediocre relationships most people have to settle for, yours can be truly great. With great sex, you will be able to make a girl fall so deeply in love with you that she will do anything for you.
Even outside the relationship, you’ll feel better about yourself. By truly knowing that you can blow any woman’s mind in bed, you’ll become more confident and naturally more attractive. On the other hand, if you’re only a poor lover, sex can be truly terrible. Something, which should be incredible, is ruined by insecurities and feelings of inadequacy. Your confidence is slowly sapped from you with each disappointing sexual experience. You become bitter, and incapable of enjoying truly fulfilling relationships with women.
Because sex is so important, it is no surprise that sexual improvement is a multi-million dollar industry. You can find hundreds of e-books on the internet, professing to teach you
to become a bedroom legend. Sex books are mainstream; you can find dozens of them in your local Barnes and Noble.
I’ve read a good amount of these books, and most of them are absolutely terrible.
So, what makes this book different?
Instead of the usual mediocre relationships most people have to settle for, yours can be truly great. With great sex, you will be able to make a girl fall so deeply in love with you that she will do anything for you.
Even outside the relationship, you’ll feel better about yourself. By truly knowing that you can blow any woman’s mind in bed, you’ll become more confident and naturally more attractive. On the other hand, if you’re only a poor lover, sex can be truly terrible. Something, which should be incredible, is ruined by insecurities and feelings of inadequacy. Your confidence is slowly sapped from you with each disappointing sexual experience. You become bitter, and incapable of enjoying truly fulfilling relationships with women.
Because sex is so important, it is no surprise that sexual improvement is a multi-million dollar industry. You can find hundreds of e-books on the internet, professing to teach you
to become a bedroom legend. Sex books are mainstream; you can find dozens of them in your local Barnes and Noble.
I’ve read a good amount of these books, and most of them are absolutely terrible.
So, what makes this book different?
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